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Our 25th Anniversary Is Today!

May 28,1994 – our wedding day.

Today Greg and I celebrate 25 years of being Mr.and Mrs.Greg Cassidy!

Greg and April – May 28,1994 .

We had dated for almost 6 years from the time I was 15 and Greg was 16.I thought we were SO ready to be a godly husband and wife.In fact,I thought we were much better prepared than just about anyone else ever had been.We weren't going to have conflict or problems like all thoseotherpeople.Marriage wasn't going to be hard for us at all!

The wedding went off without a hitch.It was perfect!Greg's dad was our officiating pastor.My sister was my maid of honor.Greg's brother was his best man.We each had six other attendants.The music was beautiful.The food was amazing at the reception.Three hundred-fifty people packed into the church to celebrate with us on that hot and humid South Carolina afternoon.Everything was like a fairy tale.

The first three days of our marriage were glorious.The honeymoon was everything I had hoped and imagined it would be!

But you know what the Bible says about pride,right?

Pride goes before destruction,a haughty spirit before a fall.Prov.16:18

Yep.It took all of about one week of marriage beforethings began to get really hard.I was completely unprepared and shocked.I didn't understand the primarypurpose of marriagein those early years.And I didn't have many tools to help me deal with so many problems and difficulties.I thought I trusted the Lord.I had received Christ as my Savior at the age of five.I knew tons of verses by memory.I only listened to Christian music.But I didn't know how to live out my faith in real life.I was operating in my own strength,not God's.

Today,I am grateful for everything.The good times and the hard times.

Leaving the church on our wedding day – May 28,1994

It was through the problems we experienced in the first 14 years of our marriage that God opened my eyes to my profound need for Him in ways I had never appreciated or understood before.I am forever in the Lord's debt for this!

He showed me that the real test of my faith was the fruit of my life.He opened my eyes to see that the fruit of my life was not the fruit of His Spirit: love,joy,peace,patience,kindness,goodness,faithfulness,and self-control.I wanted to be all of those things and to have all of those things but I was lonely,miserable,and frustrated.I didn't know how to get where I wanted to be.I assumed it was all Greg's fault and that he needed to fix it.He needed to make me happy and do everything I wanted him to do.Then my life would be wonderful.

The fruit of my life for a long time wasfear,worry,anxiety,control,pride,self-righteousness,complaining,arguing,negative talking,resentment,aspirit of offense,andbitterness.The way I lived didn't match up with what I said I believed.

We were in a big old mess.If the Lord didn't intervene 10 and 1/2 years ago,we would not be where we are today.I have no doubt,without God's help,we would be in a much bigger mess by now,and our children,too.The road we were travelling down was destructive and toxic for all of us.

But God…

He opened my eyes firstand pulled me out of that nasty pit.For the first time ever,I saw the enormity of my own sin (the ways I fell short of God's holy standard of perfection –Rom.3:23).I mourned over my spiritual condition in mortification and horror (Matt.5:4).Then I stopped demanding that God change my husband and began begging Him to changeme.

I yielded my life to theLordship of Jesusand decided toreally trust Him to have controlrather than trusting myself to try to make everything happen like I thought it should.

He set me free from thelies,messed-up thinking,and chains that were choking me.Slowly,the Lord began to heal me first.Then,over the years,He worked in Greg and started to heal our marriage.How can I ever give Jesus enough praise and glory for these miracles?!

I am thankful today.

  • Thankful for God's grace for us.
  • Thankful for Him illuminating His wisdom for us in our marriage.
  • Thankful for His Word.
  • Thankful for His Spirit.
  • Thankful for His promises.
  • Thankful for His faithfulness.
  • Thankful for His beautiful design for men,women,marriage,and families.
  • Thankful that,in Christ,we don't have to continue on and on living as slaves to habitual sin.

I want everyone to get to experience thesalvation,healing,and abundant spiritual life Jesus provides!That is the greatest desire of my heart!He is the only source of real peace,joy,fulfillment,and contentment.Not a husband.Not marriage.Not children.Not romance.Not earthly happiness.Not religious rules or rituals.Some of these things are good things.But without the Prince of Peace,Jesus,being on the throne of my heart,they will all leave me empty.

When we are walking and living in right relationship with Him,He transforms our hearts,minds,and souls.He pours His healing power through us and changes our desires,thinking,and the way we interact with others so that we can become more and more of a blessing to everyone around us.Not because of our own wisdom,strength,or goodness,but because of His Spirit and His Word working in us.

We will still have to deal with the sinful nature as long as we are on this earth,but in the power of Jesus,He can help us tocrucify our old selfand we have the ablity to choose each moment to yield to Him so that He can help uslive in the power of our new nature,the Holy Spirit.As long as we live on earth,the Lord will continue to refine,prune,and purify us.He will humble us and help us grow spiritually as we trust Him,love Him,and seek Him wholeheartedly.Then,one day in heaven,we will be glorified with Him and completely set free from any influence from our sinful nature and temptation.What a wonderful day that will be!

Jesus is truly the key!

Anything good in me is totally from Him.

I am amazed that 25 years have sped by so quickly already.My prayer is,

"May God be greatly glorified in each of our lives,in our marriage,and in our children's lives!May our marriage point people to theGospeland to Christ Jesus!"

I pray the same for each of you,precious sisters and friends!

UPDATES

  • Good news,we finally finished working on Greg's parents' house to get it ready to sell and just put it on the market this past week!We praise God for this!My prayer is that this home might be a wonderful blessing to a new family and that they will make many memories to cherish there for many years to come.
  • I'm still enjoying my new job with my brother and my parents.They are thrilled I am there.I am ecstatic to be there.I know I am where I need to be.I still have a LOT to learn,of course.But hopefully I will grow to be more and more useful.I want to be a blessing to them,my coworkers,and our customers.
  • I am adjusting to my new schedule and increase in work hours pretty well.The kids and I have a new balance for the chores and priorities at home.They are taking on additional responsibilities as they are definitely old enough to do so and very capable.
  • Our son,our daughter,and myself are each experiencing several medical issues.Some could involve potential surgery.So we are praying for wisdom in dealing with these things.
  • We have had some additional trials recently about which I can't elaborate right now.Thankfully,they have been much smaller than the issues we faced last year.The bigger trials really put the smaller ones in proper perspective!
  • I continue to pray and seek the Lord for His direction and vision for me for ministry moving forward.Things have been rather crazy.I'm hoping it will be calming down a bit now with one house from the estate finished.I know God will show me His path for me as I wait on Him.
  • I have needed some extra time to allow the Lord to restore my soul and to help me tend to my family in this season.Thank you for your patience,love,encouragement,and support!

Fear not,for I am with you;be not dismayed,for I am your God;

I will strengthen you,I will help you,

I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.

Isaiah 41:10

More Good Things to Come

We have so much more to learn,and we will keep learning every day as long as we are on this earth.I'm excited to see the adventure that is to come.

Can't wait to see all that the Lord has in store foreach of usas we continue this journey together!

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"The Peaceful Mom – Building a Healthy Foundation with Christ As Lord"– Nitty gritty help to really dig in and grow like crazy in your faith in Jesus in ways that powerfully impact your life and family relationships.

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ARE YOU DEALING WITH TRIALS,TOO?

This past year has been the most difficult and painful of our lives.But God is STILL VERY GOOD!He is with us and He is able to take all of the good and bad and use it for our ultimate good and His ultimate glory (Rom.8:28-29),in fact,that is His promise to us as believers in Christ.Check out the principles we have learned from Scripture to help us in the midst of problems and difficulty.

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14 thoughts to "Our 25th Anniversary Is Today!"

  1. A very happy 25th anniversary to you both dear April!I am so happy God continues to bless you and your family after all your trials,and thank you for being a shining light to women of faith!

  2. Wow 25 years!Congratulations to you and your husband and glory to God!It's great to see your update,I'm glad your job is going well.Praying for your health and your daughter and son too.Hoping no surgery is needed.

  3. Happy Anniversary!May your next 25 be even greater and more blessed than these!What a blessing you are to so many…

  4. Happy anniversary to you both.God bless you both with another 25 years together.

  5. A very happy Anniversary!May the Almighty continue to use you both in the marriages and lives of many.

  6. Happy Anniversary

    A little late.Thank you for the books and your website.Prayers to you and your family,may God continue to bless you.

  7. Happy Anniversary!God bless you,your husband,family,ministry and everything you do!!

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